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Dear Desperate,

 

It is often hard to distinguish between the hard knocks in life

and those of opportunity.  ~Frederick Phillips.

 

I can see the aura on the left side of your head dark and foreboding, indicating how overwhelmed you’ve become as you dwell on your past and past mistakes.

 

Your wife has become infected with your fears, and now they are blocking the love you both had for one another.  My hunch is that your wife is trying to save your marriage by scaring you into change.

 

Change Your Thinking, Change Your Life

 

Instead of looking at your wife and dreading the worse, imagine loving her unconditionally. Read a book on how to save a marriage and follow the writer’s suggestions. Know that repairing a relationship takes time and effort, Don’t expect things to change quickly. She has been waiting for you to change for a long time, and you didn’t know because you were unseeing and unhearing.

 

Don’t fear the worse, but rather help your wife to be happy. Be kind, patient, and walk in nature together. Wherever you go, look around and form images and ideas about the ways to deal with difficulties and problems.

 

Napolean Hill’s book, Think And Grow Rich, will give you ideas on how to find a job, and how to restore your love relationship. Transform your fears into opportunities.

"What counts in making a happy marriage is not so much how compatible you are, but how you deal with incompatibility." - Leo Tolstoy